SOCIAL / ETHICAL CONCERNS
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AFTER THE FUNERAL

Winsch, Jane Loretta
This book offers some very real help to parents, teachers, and other caring adults dealing with the complex reactions that children have to a loss. Its simple format encourages honest dialogue and compassionately helps children to recognize some of the raw feelings of grief--and then confront them honestly. 

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CLERGY TO CLERGY-HELPING YOU MINISTER TO THOSE CONFRONTING ...DEATH...

Doka, Kenneth J.
This set of six cassettes, with a guide, was produced to help clergy members deal with the circumstances of illness, loss and grief in their communities. Tape 6 is designed to be shared with bereaved families. 

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DEATH: CONFRONTING THE REALITY

Phipps, William E.
Deals with cultural and human issues surrounding death. A comprehensive resource covering definitions of life and death, life expectancy, and quality of life, terminal illness, suicide, grief, funeral practices, etc. 

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DISCOVERING GRACE IN GRIEF

Mayfield, James L.
Written for those who are grieving-especially from the loss of a loved one. Mayfield takes readers through the stages of grief: shock and/or relief, loneliness, fears and doubts, anger, temptations to deny grief, and a new way of living. For each phase he offers insights from the Christian faith that will comfort and sustain those who grieve. 

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DUSTY WAS MY FRIEND

Clardy, Andrea Fleck
This book presents a child's experience of bereavement in simple yet affective, straight, forward terms. It is the story of the death of a child as seen through the eyes of an eight-year-old peer. 

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EVERYTHING YOU NEED TO KNOW WHEN A PARENT DIES

Bratman, Fred
Death of a parent is a very painful and difficult loss. This timely and sensitive book is a guide written especially for young people are who facing the many feelings and disruptions following the death of a parent. There is also a chapter on how youth can help their friends who are experiencing the death or life threatening illness of a parent. 

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FROM COMPETENCE TO COMA

Campolo, Tony
This 40-minute video gives helpful, practical knowledge about advance directives and provokes fresh thought on the subject. An authoritative way to teach about advance directives. Can be used for educational classes for patients, families, and others in the community. 

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HELPING CHILDREN GRIEVE & GROW

O'Toole, Donna; Cory, Jerre
The information provided in this book is broad in scope but so concise that complex issues can be grasped and understood with ease. Topics include: "The Impact of Loss and Grief on Children, Things Adults Can Say and Do That Help, How To Talk With Children About Death." 

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IF NATHAN WERE HERE

Bahr, Mary
The author explores the grief of a young boy whose best friend has died. With the help of an understanding teacher, a kind neighbor, and an emphatic parent, the boy finds ways to give expression to his questions and sorrow and to reach out to someone else who needs him. 

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LAMENT FOR A SON

Wolterstorff, Nicholas
Lament for a Son is a simple, honest, and poignant expression of one man's grief, but it is more. By sharing the depths of his grief, not in trite phrases but honestly, Nicholas Wolterstorff helps open the flood gates for those who cannot articulate their pain...."

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MATTER OF LIFE AND DEATH

Heckman, Shirley J.
The sessions outlined in this unit deal with questions such as: "Why Do People Have To Die? Is the Taking of Human Life Ever Justified? How Can I Live When I Know I'm Dying? How Can I Deal With Grief?" etc. 

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MEMORIAL RITUALS BOOK FOR HEALING AND HOPE

Putter, Ann Marie
The author gives a bounty of creative ideas from her many years of experience in using ceremony and ritual as a vital part of grief group experiences. "There are few opportunities in today's 'hurry up and get it over' world that afford the bereaved a safe place to talk about and mention a loved one." 

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MOYERS ON DYING-A DEATH OF ONE'S OWN

Moyers, Bill
More and more Americans are looking for opportunities to exert some measure of control over where and how they die. In this program, Bill Moyers unravels the complexities underlying the many choices at the end of life, including the bitter debate over physician-assisted suicide. Three patients, their families, and their doctors discuss some of the hardest decisions, including how to pay for care, what constitutes humane treatment, and how to balance dying and dignity. In the end, do these patients die the way they wanted? Yes...and no. 

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MOYERS ON DYING-A DIFFERENT KIND OF CARE

Moyers, Bill
At the end of life, what many Americans want is physical and spiritual comfort in a home setting. In this program, Bill Moyers presents the important strides being made in the area of palliative care at pioneering institutions such as New York's Mt. Sinai Hospital and Memorial Sloan- Kettering Cancer Center. These advances are bringing peace to those who fear that they will be a burden to loved ones, with suffer needlessly, or will be abandoned in their hour of greatest need.

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MOYERS ON DYING-A TIME TO CHANGE

Moyers, Bill
Whether they want to or not, four out of five Americans will likely die in hospitals or nursing homes, and the care they get will depend on both who is providing it and who is footing the bill. In this program, Bill Moyers introduces crusading medical professionals--including staff members of the Balm of Gilead Project in Birmingham, Alabama-who have dedicated themselves to improving end-of-life care by changing America's overburdened health system.

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MOYERS ON DYING-LIVING WITH DYING

Moyers, Bill
Death, which sooner or later comes to all, is treated as a strangely taboo subject in America. In this program, Bill Moyers describes the search for new ways of thinking-and talking-about dying. Forgoing the usual reluctance that most Americans show toward speaking about death, patients and medical professional alike come forward to examine the end of life with honesty, courage, and even humor, demonstrating that dying can be an incredibly rich experience for both the terminally ill and their loved ones. 

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PAPA'S GIFT-AN INSPIRATION STORY OF LOVE AND LOSS
"Papa's Gift" is the poignant story of a little girl's love for her grandfather and the long process of finding hope and healing after he dies. This charming story helps children ages 4-8 begin to understand the meaning of loss and of love that never ends.

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PREPARING AN ADVANCE DIRECTIVE-STEWARDSHIP OF LIFE

Campolo, Tony
18-minute video helps you understand the purposes of advance directives: health care power of attorney (identifying a person to make medical decisions, when and if you are unable to make them yourself); and living will (providing specific guidance about medical decisions to be made). Leads viewers through steps in preparing an advance directive. 

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PROMISE OF THE RAINBOW...AFTER A CHILD DIES

Fochi, Patti
This book offers poignant insight into the wide range and depth of emotions experienced by those who suffer the loss of a child. 

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TALKING ABOUT DEATH

Grollman, Earl
This book helps adults explain death to young children. Readers will find illustrated stories and sensitive advice to comfort and educate children. Some of the questions dealt with are: "Why do people die? How do you explain the loss of a loved one to a child?" 

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TO TOUCH A GRIEVING HEART

Braza, Kathleen
Answers questions that grieving people most want to know: "How long should people grieve? "Should I try to forget or try to remember? What does one say or do when the death was caused by violent means?" For training purposes as well as for individual viewing. 

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WHAT HAPPENED WHEN GRANDMA DIED

Barker, Peggy
The death of a loved one is hard enough for an adult to understand and accept. Even more profound is a child's sense of confusion and loss upon the death of someone near and dear. The author represents life and death in terms a child can understand easily. 

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WHAT'S HEAVEN?

Shriver, Maria
The idea for this book came out of a discussion I had with our oldest daughter, Katherine, when her great grandmother Rose died. She was six years old at the time. Most of the questions and answers are from her and from our daughter Christina, who was only five." 

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WHEN GRIEF BREAKS YOUR HEART

Moore, James W.
This book explores how our faith can help us through these difficult times. Stories from lives of everyday people illustrate how we can find the comfort and healing that come only from God. Moore shows that it is God's loving grace that holds us up and sustains us. With God, we can find peace and strength in our time of grief and begin to heal. 

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WHEN SOMEONE YOU LOVE DIES

Dodd, Robert V.
This book was written to help children know what happens and what to do when someone they know dies. It is designed to be read by the child, or with an older person, and then talked about. 

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WHEN YOUR CHILD DIES
The death of a child is the worst loss parents can experience. The author offers grieving parents honest, practical guidance in working through the grief process.

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WHEN YOUR CHILD LOSES A LOVED ONE
Talking with a grieving child can leave parents at a loss for words. The author provides helpful information to parents and caregivers about children and grief.

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WHEN YOUR FRIEND IS GRIEVING

D'Arcy, Paula
The author knows what it feels like to grieve. During the first months following the death of her husband and child, she locked herself inside her apartment and wouldn't answer phone calls of friends. In this book she discusses talking and listening, how to handle emotions and questions, and every specific helps for lonely, holiday times.

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WHEN YOUR PARENTS DIES
Anticipated or sudden, the death of a parent is a life-changing loss for surviving children and family members. This little book guides adults through the first days and weeks of bereavement.

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WINDOWS: HEALING AND HELPING THROUGH LOSS

Hannaford, Mary Joe
Working through loss can be a slow and painful process, especially without help. But, with understanding and awareness, it can be a positive and life-enriching experience. Video, leader's guide, Windows book, booklets, brochures are included in this kit. 


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