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BK M01 040C1
ALL KIDS ARE OUR KIDS

Benson, Peter L.
What communities must do to raise caring and responsible children and adolescents. This book presents a comprehensive vision of what children and adolescents need to grow up healthy, and what everyone in a community must do to rebuild this foundation for healthy development. 

VT M01 001C1
ASSUMING THE POWER OF PARENTHOOD

Rosemond, John
An 80-minute video in which family physician Rosemond debunks 40 years worth of myths concerning children and their upbringing. This thought-provoking and entertaining presentation will help parents create healthy families and raise happy children. 

BK M01 016C1
BECOMING MARRIED

Anderson, Herbert
Examines issues surrounding the process of forming the marriage bond, and specifically, the events that must take place for that bond to occur. Designed for couples, parents trying to stay close to children, and clergy. 

VT M01 002C1
BLEST BE THE TIE

Benson, Dennis C.
Boredom, pop culture, sexuality, and drugs are the major topics in this provocative video. It stimulates discussion about how to strengthen relationships between adults and youth in the context of these four urgent concerns. 

BK M01 051C1 
BOUNDARIES WITH KIDS
Cloud, Henry; Townsend, John
This book will help you prepare your kids to assume responsibility for their own lives. Drawing on principles from the Bible, the authors help you apply the ten laws of boundaries to parenting and take six steps for implementing boundaries with your kids.

BK M01 046C1
BREAKING AND MENDING-DIVORCE AND GOD'S GRACE

Redding, Mary Lou
In struggling to make sense of her own painful divorce, the author looked to the Bible, where she found guidance and hope. She offers a look at the spiritual issues of divorce, rather than the sociological ones, and allows the scriptures to illuminate and heal those who are facing this difficult transition. 

VT M01 003C1
BRIDGES

Frangakis, Tony
This is the story of three generations, a mother, her college age son, and her ailing and uncommunicative father. It is a story of family relationships and of the universal need for affirmation, especially from those closest to us. 

BK M01 049C1
CHANGING FAMILIES

Browning, Don S.; Miller-McLemore, Bonnie J.;
Couture, Pamela D.; Lyon, K. Brynolf; Franklin, Robert M.

This study document was prepared by the Task Force on Changing Families of the Advisory Committee on Social Witness Policy to encourage the church to studied this issue and offer feedback to the task force and committee as they prepare and propose a policy statement for the 214th General Assembly (2002). 

BK M01 015C1
CHRISTIAN PARENTING

Sinclair, Yvonne
Using real life examples, the authors offer down-to-earth guidance and sensitive theological reflection for Christians raising children amid the realities of today's world. Discusses materialism, competition, sexuality, and conflict. 

BK M01 014C1
CONFRONTING THE IDOLATRY OF FAMILY

Fishburn, Janet F.
Challenges pastors, church educators, and other church leaders to rethink our understanding of "family" in the church, with implications for what it may mean for churches to be in ministry with families, and single adults, too. 

BK M01 001C1
DINOSAURS DIVORCE-A GUIDE FOR CHANGING FAMILIES

Brown, Laurene Krasny; Brown, Marc
This picture book helps young children and their families deal with the confusion, misconceptions, and anxieties apt to arise when divorce occurs. Its simple, direct text and lively, often funny illustrations of dinosaurs in situations every children can relate to encourage young readers to acknowledge and express their own fears and feelings. 

BK M01 023C1
FAMILY MINISTRIES

Wasserman, David
A 6-step planning process to help congregations respond to the personal, relational, and spiritual needs of families in the church and the community. 

BK M01 035C1
FAMILY PASSAGES: JOURNEYS TO NEW LIFE

Whybrew, Lyndon E.
This book is designed for church family groups, and is organized into eleven sections with helps, activities, and resources included. The sessions cover a wide variety of topics: "How Families Operate, Leaving Home, When New Families Begin, When Families Are in Crisis," and others. 

BK M01 034C1
FAMILY: WHERE THE GENERATIONS MEET

Leonard, Jr., Joe H.
Provides twelve intergenerational programs for a variety of church groups and program contexts. Specific program plans are provided to help groups explore various parts of intergenerational family life. Such subjects as: "Exploring Our Family Systems, Affirming Strengths in Single Parent Families, Weaving Traditions in Blended Families," etc. 

BK M01 029C1
FATHERING OUR DAUGHTERS

Little, Ken
This six-session study helps both new and seasoned father build a better relationship with their daughters. It covers a range of topics, including the negative cultural influences into which daughters are born, self-esteem issues peculiar to daughters, and even sex. Each chapter poses questions and provides tips and suggestions on improving father-daughter relationships. 

BK M01 048C1
FROM CULTURE WARS TO COMMON GROUND

Browning, Don S.; Miller-McLemore, Bonnie J.;
Couture, Pamela D.; Lyon, K. Brynolf; Franklin, Robert M.

What is the status of the American family? How is it changing? Are these changes making anything better? What is the future of the family? Does religion offer an answer? This book confronts these issues with such personal and societal impact. Using in-depth case studies and national surveys, this groundbreaking book presents arguments for a creation of a new family ethic that must be central to the agendas of both contemporary society and the church. 

BK M01 050C1
GIVING GOOD GIFTS-THE SPIRITUAL JOURNEY OF PARENTHOOD
Conway, George E.
The author uses insights and personal anecdotes to identify seven gifts that parents can give to their children to help them form healthy spiritual identities. He describes how providing our children with these gifts enables us to experience parenting as a spiritual journey that draws us closer to God, our children, and the best parts of ourselves.

VT M01 006C1
HELPING YOUR CHILD SUCCEED IN SCHOOL

Rosemond, John
A 1-hour presentation in which Rosemond shares a fail-safe prescription for bringing out the best in children, by teaching the "three R's" of respect, responsibility, and resourcefulness. Includes leader's guide and parent pack. 

BK M01 052C1 
HOW DO OUR CHILDREN GROW?
Halverson, Delia

In this book, the author offers parents, caregivers, and educators solid, practical ways to introduce children and young people to the Christian faith. A study guide helps small groups and individuals make the most of the book's practical wisdom.

BK M01 005C1
HOW IT FEELS WHEN PARENTS DIVORCE

Krementz, Jill
In this book 19 boys and girls from 7 to 16 years of age share their feelings about their experiences related to their parents divorce. By listening to, and reading these stories, children of divorcing parents will find validation. Also to be found in these stories are constructive ways to cope with the difficulties and challenges of divorce. 

VT M01 008C1
I AM YOUR CHILD-THE FIRST YEARS LAST FOREVER

Rosemond, John
New research tells us of the vital importance of the relationship between caregiver and child in the first years. New parents have an opportunity to help their child reach full potential. Video includes information on: bonding and attachment, communication, health and nutrition, discipline, self-esteem, child care, and self-awareness. 

BK M01 033C1
INTERFAITH MARRIAGE

Wehrheim, Carol A.
A basic resource including Christian, Jewish, and Muslim understanding of marriage; as well as pastoral issues, case studies, sample service, and sample contracts. 

VT M01 007C1
IT TAKES MORE THAN LOVE

Rosemond, John
A 4-part video/reference series which molds scientific data into practical ideas for teaching kids values, skills and commitments needed to make responsible choices. Perfect for any group setting or in the home. Part 1 Intentional Parenting Part 2 Value Centered Parenting Part 3 Nurture-Centered Parenting Part 4-Inclusive Parenting 

BK M01 039C1
IT TAKES TWO: THE JOY OF INTIMATE MARRIAGE

Lester, Andrew D.; Lester, Judith L.
The Lesters discuss how increasing intimacy in marriage allows both partners to approach issues of communication, owner, anger, and faith more creatively and effectively. This book is a resource for couples, with exercised tested by couples in marriage and family therapy.

BK M01 032C1
JOURNEY AHEAD

Wehrheim, Carol A.
A Bible study for expectant parents with chapters on "Rest for Your Souls," Do Not Be Afraid, My Child Will Be, Who Am I? Who Are You? Holy to God,' "A Variety of Gifts," etc. 

BK M01 028C1
KEEPING YOUR CHILDREN SAFE

Youngs, Bettie B.
In this very personal book, the author argues that a healthy childhood is the result of much more than attention to exercise, nutrition, and immunizations. It offers a sensible model for parenting that fosters spiritual well-being. 

BK M01 002C1
LIFE AFTER DIVORCE

Reed, Bobbie
The foundation of this book if biblical. The steps are practical. You'll respond to insightful "reflection" questions and learn to affirm yourself daily-several times a day. Learn how to identify 10 destructive thought patterns, recognize, resolve, and redirect your anger, protect your children from fallout, and more.

BK M01 031C1
MARRIAGE: A THEOLOGICAL STATEMENT

Little, Ken
A paper adopted by the 120th General Assembly and commended to the church for study (study guide included). 

BK M01 021C1
MY PARENTS, MY CHILDREN

Murphey, Cecil
Well-known Christian writer Cecil Murphy offers practical advice and spiritual guidance to those who care for both school-age children and aging parents at the same time. He provides reflections and stories from his counseling e experience to illuminate some of the challenges facing those who respond to the physical and emotional needs of these widely differing age groups. Each devotional begins with a descriptive snapshot of a difficult or trying moment common to caregivers, and ends with a prayer and an appropriate biblical passage. 

BK M01 004C1
NURTURING THE CHILDREN OF GOD-CALL TO FOSTER PARENTING AND ADOPTION

Rifner, Lois J.
Drawing on her years of family counseling and interviews with adopting parents, Rifner says that the church should see adoption as a call and should support and celebrate adoption as much as births. The history of adoption; special difficulties that may be encountered; expenses to expect; criteria used for potential parents; what to tell the adopted child; the right to a child's medical, genetic, and social history; using the Web to locate agencies; and unhealthy reason for adopting are all issues covered. 

BK M01 007C1
NURTURING FAITH IN FAMILIES
Roehlkepartain, Jolene L.
425 easyto-to-use, creative ideas for ministering to families. This resource is applicable to a wide range of families and can be used in various aspects of church life (for example, education, service/mission, worship, congregational care, the arts, and special activities.

BK M01 012C1
PARENT EDUCATION: GUIDE FOR FAMILY ENRICHMENT

Tweet, Rosemary
This book is written for lay and professional church leaders who recognize the importance of helping parents find answers to the hundreds of difficult situations they face. It outlines a model for teaching parenting skills to parents. 

VT M01 010C1
PARENTING FOR LIFE

Hill, Penny J.
This four-video series is designed to "meet the needs of Christian parents in today's confusing world." It is designed to be used in 12-sessions as a parent education resource. There is a facilitator's guide, with step-by-step instructions, as well as reproducible handouts. 

BK M01 020C1
PRESBYTERIAN MARINERS

Huggins, Kay
Designed as an introduction to Mariners. Mariners is an organization whose primary emphasis is support and nurture of marriage and families. 

BK M01 018C1
PROTESTANT WEDDING SOURCEBOOK

Batts, Sidney F.
The author encourages ministers to work with engaged couples to create unique, individual services that are meaningful to the pair on their wedding day. Eleven sections, worksheets, 17 unedited wedding services. 

BK M01 038C1
RAISING PEACEFUL CHILDREN IN A VIOLENT WORLD

Cecil, Nancy Lee
An action book for parents and teachers who want to end violence and create a safe, peaceful environment for children--in the home, in school, and in the community. Brimming with creative suggestions and down-to-earth examples for teaching children to become peacemakers. 

BK M01 037C1
RECREATING MARRIAGE WITH THE SAME OLD SPOUSE: A GUIDE FOR COUPLES

Bender, Sandra Gray
Drawing on years of experience counseling couples and groups, Bender contends that married people need intentional, focused direction to create the marriage they want. Using personal and professional examples, discussion questions, and practice exercises, the book attempts to educate couples in the skills of being married. 

BK M01 013C1
REGARDING CHILDREN

Anderson, Herbert
A full range of issues dealing with children in our society, including the child in relation to the family, the child as individual, the dysfunctional family, and the interdependence of the family and the larger social system. 

BK M01 027C1
SIX-POINT PLAN FOR RAISING HAPPY, HEALTHY CHILDREN

Rosemond, John
Rosemond's plan will begin a lifelong process of freeing parents from the guilt, exhaustion, and anger undermining today's family, and free children to lead happy, responsible lives of their own. 

BK M01 010C1
SPIRIT OF ADOPTION
Stevenson-Moessner, Jeanne
In this heart-felt theology of adoption, Stevenson-Moessner argues that while the church has long understood the grounding self-concept of a Christian as a "child of God," it has failed to underscore that we all come into the family of faith by adoption. She explores adoption as a central theme in Scripture, as a doctrine of faith, and as a theological metaphor.

Further, in using her own experience of adoption to inform her scholarship, Stevenson-Moessner offers help to all those touched by adoption, including adoptive parents. By beginning with chapters on barrenness, conception, and expectant waiting, and moving to discussions of the developing years, the search for identity, and challenges in the adoptive family, her writing begs a wide audience. Including case studies and interviews with adoptive parents, The Spirit of Adoption will be embraced by scholars, counselors, adoptive parents, and adopted children alike.

BK M01 003C1
STARTING AGAIN: A DIVORCE RECOVERY PROGRAM

Scott, Sandra
Divorce is an experience that can make you feel that everything in your life is becoming unhinged. Starting again is designed to help people take positive steps toward healing and whole. It will help you understand the grief process, gain insight into daily survival and coping skills, and experience God's loving and sustaining presence. 

BK M01 041C1
STARTING OUT RIGHT-DEVELOPMENTAL ASSETS FOR CHILDREN

Leffert, Nancy
With this report, Search Institute offers new frameworks for understanding and building the foundation that children from birth through age 10 need to begin a healthy life. 

BK M01 008C1
SUCCESSFUL PARENTING

Leite, John S.
This book focuses on how to become a successful parent rather than how to control adolescent behavior, or produce perfect children, provides practical guidelines dealing with behavior, and providing a healthy environment. 

VT M01 009C1
TELL ME THE OLD, OLD STORY

Hill, Penny J.
This video, cassette, and discussion guide are designed to motivate parents to action as they begin reading Bible stories to their children daily. It is also designed to equip churches with ways to support and follow-up this reading activity with a Bible storybook bibliography and a Bible reading chart. 

BK M01 045C1
TENDING THE FLOCK: CONGREGATIONS AND FAMILY MINISTRY

Lyon, K. Brynolf; Smith, Jr., Archie
The congregational ministries to families found in this book will expand your imagination about the meaning of family ministry. They are presented as ideal ministries. They are offered as suggestive, enriching, and thought provoking. 

BK M01 047C1
TIES THAT STRESS

Elkind, David
The author attempts to answer the questions: "What has happened to the American family in the last few decades?" and "What are these changes doing to our children?" This books puts together some puzzling facts and conflicting accounts to show what the American family has become. 

KT M01 001C1
WEDDING POLICIES

Johnson, Ben Campbell

This notebook contains wedding policies for various churches. It is an aid to those seeking to develop their own policies. 

BK M01 042C1
WHAT KIDS NEED TO SUCCEED

Benson, Peter L.
This book presents the developmental assets, shows their importance to helping youth make positive life choices, and gives practical ideas for building each one. It includes more than 500 common-sense ideas for building assets at home, in the congregation, at school, and in the community. 

BK M01 043C1
WHEN A PARENT MARRIES AGAIN

Heegaard, Marge
Children are validated for both the losses and the gains inherent in the remarriage of a parent. A boon to merging families to help them share stories and to form lasting and meaningful bonds. There are places for children to illustrate what they are experiencing. 

BK M01 044C1

WHEN MOM AND DAD SEPARATE
Heegaard, Marge
Children learn basic concepts about marriage and divorce and are given creative ways to engage in problem solving during intense times of conflict and change. There are spaces for children to illustrate what they are experiencing. 

BK M01 006C1
WHY DID GOD MAKE BUGS & OTHER ICKY THINGS

Groseclose, Kel
With gentleness and humor, the author offers down-to-earth answers for those off-the-wall questions kids ask. He helps parents, teachers, and grandparents take kids' questions seriously and instill a sense of confidence and trust. 

VT M01 004C1
YOU CAN'T SAY HELLO...UNTIL YOU'VE SAID GOODBYE

Frangakis, Tony
Focuses on family transitions, useable in a variety of contexts from marriage preparation to intergenerational church gatherings. Leader's guide, additional resources, training guide included. 

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